Louise Thompson: Is putting myself first selfish?

... to please, to not be perceived as "selfish" and the inability to say no! Rescheduling what's important to you (your run/yoga session/coffee with a friend) because someone else's needs require fulfilling has a short-term psychological payoff. We feel ...

http://www.nzherald.co.nz/mental-health/news/article.cfm?c_id=699&objectid=10881750&ref=rss